As reported in
the Los Angeles Times on October 7, more than two-thirds
of trauma victims studied said that they had benefited from the
trauma in some way, according to Richard Tedeschi, a clinical
psychologist from the University of North Carolina.30
In a study of Vietnam-era
prisoners of war, nearly two-thirds said they were more content,
stronger and wiser than they were before their capitivity.31
In a 1999 study
on air crash survivors, researchers Gary Capobianco, M.A. and
Thanos Patelis, Ph.D. found that among the survivors who did not
want or need counseling immediately following the crash, many
appeared to be the least troubled by the crash experience and
reported the least amount of distress among the survivors.32
A 1993 study on
shipwreck survivors had similar conclusions. The wreck survivors,
after a period time, reported strong positive changes in their
outlook on life, greater self-esteem and most importantly, lower
scores on measures of post-traumatic stress.33
Tana Dineen Ph.D.
says, "If you look at people who have been through horrific
things, by and large, they get over it
. The idea that we
are
pretty resilient seems to have been forgotten."34
Dr. Alex Hossach,
Consultant Clinical psychologist with St. Helens Trust in the
United Kingdom, states, "Sometimes, a caring family member
can help the individual by simply listening to their problems."35
Or as psychiatrist
Dr. Sally Satel, says: "Are our priests and rabbis not up
to the task? Are our families' instincts to comfort not keen enough?"36
Dr. Satel warned
against "sensationalizing mental health professionals"
spreading gloom and doom about the American people's seeming lack
of resilience, stating, "What we needand thankfully
seem to haveis a morally galvanized and focused citizenry,
not a population turned inward on its alleged psychological fragility."37